All Kinds Of Random

As you know this week has been really hard on me due to the long weekend from Thanksgiving and my wanting to be a stay at home mom so bad I can't see straight. On top of my emotions, I struggled greatly to keep up with work. I now get to do the whole explain why your numbers are down thing on Monday (joy joy). Tuesday was a not so great day (to be honest I can't even remember why that was now lol) and I was just over it. My manager asked to speak with me, which luckily she already told us she would be speaking with each of us individually, or else I would have freaked out. Basically I got a promotion, but I will still be doing my same job. She started out telling me the new title and in my head I was thinking, ok what does that mean? I think she expected a reaction but I had no idea what she was even talking about lol. She went on to explain that it also meant a small bump in pay. When she told me my new salary I felt like crying because I'm pretty sure it's an answer to one of my prayers...I'll find out soon enough :) 


Not too long ago I mentioned I was being audited by the IRS. On November 21 I received a large packet from them again. My heart sank and I pretty much just dropped everything to open it. Staring back at me was a letter stating I owed them $4100 (don't remember the exact amount) because I failed to prove the tests they sent the first time. I'll be honest and say that as usual I wanted to cry but one of my first thoughts were, there goes Maddy's Christmas. I'm so very thankful that I was able to realize that the devil was just trying to steal my joy and I refused to let him do so. I couldn't say I felt 100% peaceful, but I was definitely unusually calm and did feel peace about it. Since then I have received another letter from them letting me know they received my information and to give them 30 days to review. I was confused because first they say I owe money now they say to wait to hear back. The CPA who has been handling this situation said to always go by the newest information and to just wait to hear back. IF they say I still owe money then I am going to give him power of attorney and he is going to go fight my case in person lol. Basically from what they say I owe it sounds as if they are saying I can't claim Maddy, when in fact I can. This is def something to pray about because there is no way I can pay that kind of money...installments or not! I can say I have learned a lesson from all of this...use this CPA and let him file my taxes lol. I've had problems ever since I started claiming Maddy. At the end of 2010 I received a letter from the IRS stating someone else claimed Maddy and to make sure I could really claim her. For 2010 taxes I tried filing like I have for years and it kept rejecting me saying someone else already claimed Maddy. I went ahead and filed by mail and here we are today...with a lovely audit. I really need to check out what is going on and make sure somebody isn't reaping benefits off my child or even worse, stolen her identity. 


Tomorrow the hardwood floors are being put in. It's going to take all day so me and Maddy are pretty much banned from the house lol. Not exactly sure everything we will be hanging out with my mom for some of the day to help her out with a work situation. I had thought about taking Maddy to the mall to do her santa pic but I can't find her dress we bought. I really wish she already knew about her car she is getting for Christmas because the weather is going to be decent and she could drive around the neighborhood. I'm sure I will end up in stores buying clothes and shoes for Maddy and come home completely broke lol.


We are officially on countdown to Christmas. I'm a little disappointed because I ordered a countdown to Christmas calendar from an online store and I have no idea when it is supposed to get here. It's an individual who sells stuff online...her clothes and headbands have been featured on teen mom 2 (Bailey Booper's Boutique). It's not at all her fault that I don't have it yet...I'm just disappointed that I didn't order it sooner. I must say I just love her items she sells and plan on buying some more as I can. 


Maddy has been going through some moods lately. Monday-Wednesday was horrible on the way home. She was just so frustrated that she was screaming as hard as she could and shaking and biting herself as hard as she could. Thursday she was in a great mood and didn't pitch a fit. Today was right back to the bad mood tantrum. I'm not sure if it was just getting re-acclimated to daycare after the long weekend or if there's something else going on. It's been a little rough though and I'm really hoping it goes away soon. 


This week we had a large amount of rainfall in the Chattanooga area. On my way to pick up Maddy I took a pic of water in the road. Just as a FYI I was stopped when I took this pic. 

We also had our first chance of snow. I'm the nerd who captured the radar with my phone to document on here. It's crazy that we are already talking snow...where has the time gone? We didn't get any accumulation at my house, but we did see it snow.

I have some pics of Maddy I haven't posted yet so I will end with a collage of Maddy pics :) I hope you all have a great weekend, even though I'm sure I will post pics of the new floors.

 Maddy's Christmas jammies :) I tend to buy a lot of Christmas jammies and have her wear them until she outgrows them. I'm going to try to tone it down this year. I just need to get her actual Christmas Eve jammies and then I'm done...I think.

Real Estate

My mom is a local real estate agent and has just created a wonderful new website. You can click here to check out all the latest info. She wants the best for her clients and will do everything she can to ensure they get a great deal, whether they are buying or selling. If you are in need of a great realtor look no more. Her contact information is listed on the website so make sure to check it out :)

Lauri Clark Homes....

Wishes you and yours a very Merry Christmas!

The Stockings Were Hung...

Ok so our stockings aren't really hung just yet, but I'm so excited that they finally got here. I received a catalog from Personal Creations a while back and I just loved all their Christmas stuff. I decided to go all out and buy Maddy, my dog, and me personalized Christmas stockings. I had such a tough time choosing which ones to buy because there were so many cute ones. I asked my mom which ones she would pick and she picked the one I was contemplating getting so I knew they were the ones for us. I was disappointed because Manny's stocking was out of stock and apparently they didn't plan on getting anymore in. I found a similar one at Wal-Mart and was thrilled. Manny's doesn't really match mine and Maddy's but it's the only bone stocking I could find and I still love it. I posted pics on facebook and twitter so sorry for the repeat pics :)

This weekend is very busy around our household. Saturday we are having hardwood floors put in. It will look so pretty for Christmas and I simply cannot wait! We are also decorating the house, hopefully anyways, and getting our Christmas tree. Once everything is set up and back in place I will be sharing pics :)

P.S. I really didn't try to stay with a "M" name theme when Maddy was born lol...never thought about it until recently but I guess it just sorta ended up that way. I must have watched one too many 19 Kids and Counting shows lol. I guess I could say we're the three muskateers :) I love my lil family!

Random Emotions

Today has been a rough day for me. I am so thankful for long weekends, but they make going back to work so hard...especially this time of year. I found myself almost refusing to work, which just makes the rest of the week harder. I can't even begin to tell you how bad I want to be a stay at home mom. I know being a stay at home mommy is no easy job, but it's a job I've wanted even before I knew about Maddy. I don't think the desire to be a stay at home mom will ever die down any, but the need to talk about it will if I can just make it through this week lol. Maddy and I really did have an amazing weekend together and I just hate that it had to come to an end. She has started saying, "Yeah" instead of, "Huh" for uh-huh and her expressions are just too cute and often quite funny lol. I am having to write from my phone tonight and it doesn't let you add captions under the pics so these are just random pics of Maddy I have on my phone. There is nothing like having a child and I pray that God would someday (soon preferably) let me be a full time mom for my job. I have been specific in my prayers that I am not forced to stay home by losing my job, just as an FYI :) for now this is where God has me so I will pick myself up and carry on. I just needed to get my feelings out again so I could do so. I really am an emotional girl.

Zulily

As you all know I switched over to the iPhone 4S. I wasn't too sure about it in the beginning and really missed my amazing camera that my HTC Evo had. Since writing about the iPhone 4s I have really grown to love my phone. I've been watching Zulily sales for a while now, but never saw anything I just had to have for Maddy and didn't quite think the prices were that great. I have since downloaded the app on my phone and have found a few things I just love. I have a feeling having the app on my phone is going to get me in trouble but I will deal with that later lol. I will try to show some pics of what I've ordered so far:

I normally buy most of her clothes at JC Penny because they have so many sales I generally can buy a better wardrobe than most places. I also like shopping at The Children's Place and Old Navy but those are more expensive stores so I only buy a few things. I have found an Old Navy outlet store that I shop at for her as well as OshKosh and Carter's. There is a Children's Place outlet but the prices aren't much different. I am not the type of person to pay high dollar just for a cute outfit, so that's why I haven't bought more from Zulily. I only buy things that are just super cute and for a decent price because she grows out of clothes quite fast (although it is starting to slow down) and I know once she gets older she will want more higher dollar clothes so I better save my money while I can lol. I look up the brand online prior to purchasing from Zulily just to make sure I can't find a better deal and so far they have been the lowest. The last outfit picture on here I found runs around $50-60 and I got it for $22...I can handle that :) I know most people have heard about Zulily but if you haven't I would definitely encourage you to check it out. I look everyday but only buy here and there. 

Thanksgiving Weekend 2011

I'm not at all ready for my long weekend to end! My weekend started Wednesday at 12:52 p.m. I was able to get a very small workout in and then off to run some errands before I picked Maddy up from school. I decided to take advantage of any sales going on and headed to Toys R Us to pick up some more of Maddy's Christmas. I was surprised it wasn't more crowded than it was, but I was very thankful. I picked Maddy up early and we were headed to home to start our wonderful weekend. We listened to a local radio station that is playing nonstop Christmas music and it just made me so excited that the Christmas season is here once again. Thursday morning Maddy I thought was resting up for a very long day because at 8:41 she was still laying in bed...this child is up around 7 a.m. no matter what. When I went in to say good morning and happy thanksgiving I noticed she didn't look "normal." She didn't want anything to do with my happiness and just wanted to be left alone. I then heard her sinuses and realized she must have had a sore throat. I felt so bad for her. Once she got up and moved around a bit she acted like she felt some better, but still not great. I almost didn't go to Thanksgiving, but she wasn't running a fever and she wasn't acting like she was just miserable so we went ahead and went. We had lunch at my grandmother's at 1:00 p.m. Here are some pics from that:

By the end of the night she was plum exhausted. I had every intention of going to Wal-Mart to do some black Friday shopping at midnight, but I myself was plum exhausted and fell asleep. I woke up at 12:48 a.m. but I was so out of it there was no way I could have functioned. Friday we went shopping with my mom and step dad. Maddy loves riding in my step dad's truck and that is the one time she doesn't mind getting in her seat lol. We went to Lowe's and Sams and then back home. My mom is updating the house and has some goals to accomplish before Christmas. She had to rip wallpaper off my bathroom and the kitchen and is going to paint both plus the living and dining room. This coming Saturday she is having hardwood floors put in the living and dining room. It has turned out to be quite a task but it's very exciting. Friday night we loaded back up in the truck to go to Rock City to see all the Christmas lights. Last year Maddy just wanted to go go go and it was more than exhausting. This year I had planned on getting a backpack to wear that she could sit in, but it cost $100 and I just couldn't pay it right now. I remembered I had a backpack thing that she wears and I hold on to so I decided to give it a try. I have to say that I don't care what people think (I used to say I would never put my child in one prior to having one because it looks like they are a dog...I just didn't know lol) that thing was a lifesaver. Maddy is not one to hold hands...she is an "I do it myself" kind of person. This backpack allows her to feel free, but gives mommy peace of mind in knowing that she isn't just going to take off and something happen to her. It worked like a charm and whereas she still just wanted to go and not pay attention to the lights...it was nowhere near like last year. She would stop a little and look at some but she just wanted to walk more than anything. She did have some meltdowns, but it's a really long walk for a toddler. We were there almost 3 hours. Here are the pictures from the trip:

 We went with my aunt and uncle and their granddaughter Aria who is only 8 months younger than Maddy.

Oops, forgot to rotate them lol

You can tell Maddy has had enough...this is one of the spots she had a meltdown last year...I figured it must be the halfway point :)

I had to hurry and take this pic because we unknowingly cut in front of someone and they were quick to let us know. My mom apologized to the man but he just didn't care...it was kinda ridiculous

We made it all the way through and mommy was soooo happy it went much better than last year. I felt like we accomplished something lol

Maddy with her Nana and Pops in the gift shop

Here is Maddy having one of her moments...


Saturday me and Maddy worked. Maddy really enjoyed herself and played by herself some too which is a huge thing in itself because she has never played by herself. She would sit in the room I was in and play near me, of coarse checking out was going on as well. I had a lot of papers to shred and she enjoyed helping me, but didn't understand why she couldn't touch. Her Pops was busy painting the foyer and hall, her Nana was busy clearing out the office/her playroom to get ready to paint it today, and I was busy cleaning out my stuff in the office/playroom as well as going through other stuff around the house. Maddy did so well and understood that she couldn't touch the walls and was very careful. She ate lots of fruit and did lots of playing. Once she went to bed I started my room and stayed up till 2:00 a.m. trying to finish it. I didn't quite make it but oh well. Today I hope to get my room finished, Maddy's laundry done, as well as go to some stores to get a few items I need. I've also been busy shopping on Zulily, but will make that it's own post. I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Maddy and I really enjoyed spending time together and I am so very thankful that she is in my life. I love being her mommy and am so thankful God her to me...she is truly a blessing and a gift. 

Excitement Post

Today has felt like Christmas all day today. I have just been so ecstatic today! As you can see I def have emotional highs and lows lol. After writing my post last night I was able to pray about my problems and then go to bed. I woke up feeling MUCH better. I wanted to be up at 6:00 this morning so I could be done with work at 10:52 but going to bed at 12:20 a.m. didn't allow me to do so. I woke up at normal time and got off work at 12:52. I was able to get a short workout in and then run some errands before getting Maddy. A local station (92.3) started to play Christmas songs all the time and that really just sent my mood beyond joyous. One thing I did is try to get as much of Maddy's Christmas as I could before all the traffic gets really bad and I accomplished that plus an extra. Toys R Us is running a sale where you buy $40 in Disney movies and you get a $10 gift card back. I bought four movies for $30. Of coarse I bought all Christmas movies too lol...Eloise at ChristmasTime, Prep & Landing, Santa Buddies, and The Legend of Santa Paws. I am really enjoying the holidays this year and I am thankful for that. From here on out me and Maddy will be doing festive activities and will be extremely busy. This weekend we are headed to Rock City to see all the Christmas lights. I was hoping to get a backpack to carry her in because it is quite a long walk for a 2 year old, but I'm not sure I want to spend $100 just to do so...especially not knowing if she will sit in it. Next weekend we are headed to our local train station and going on a Polar Express train ride that will serve hot chocolate and cookies and the kids will get to see Santa. The weekend after that we will be celebrating my youngest niece's 7th birthday. That is all the "planned" things I can think of but there will also be lots of baking and shopping and singing done as well. I hope you all have a very happy Thanksgiving and be careful not to eat too much lol